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May 19, 2012 from 9am to 1pm – Bloomington, IL
August 2, 2012 from 6pm to 7pm – Abingdon Oxfordshire
An online community for friends, family and people with SMS to share experiences, advice and to support each other
Upcoming Events:
Illinois: Taylor Bug Kisses Foundation 5k walk for SMS (May 19)
Florida: Sienna's Steps 5k for SMS Research Foundation (May 19)
Owen is still up for adoption. He lives on the Massachusetts/New York border and his family would like him to be adopted within the surrounding areas so they can visit him. He is 8 years old and has SMS. If you can help please email shannon@taylorbugkisses.com
Gifting the Website to the Taylor Bug Kisses Foundation
Hi all. Thank you for all your support over the last 3 years. I am gifting the website to the Taylor Bug Kisses Foundation as I just don't have the time to put into it anymore. Life of a single full time working SMS mummy : ) I'm sure Shannon will do an amazing job with the website.
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WHAT IS SMITH MAGENIS SYNDROME?
For the benefit of friends and family who have a person with SMS in their lives I have put together a brief summary. Please note that the summary is only my understanding of SMS ....
For medical and scientific information please refer to the links to various websites, academic articles and fact sheets set out below.
SMS
Smith Magenis Syndrome (SMS) is a specific pattern of physical, behavioural, and developmental features in a person. A person with SMS may have many or few of the features and the severity of these features may vary between individuals.
Typical Features
Typical SMS features include:
*endearing and engaging personalities
*characteristic facial appearance (i.e cupid’s lips, round cheeks)
*intellectual disabilities/challenges
*development delay (i.e. low tone, late walkers and talkers)
*ear and hearing problems
*vision problems
*sleep disturbances and early morning risers
*speech difficulties
*attention-seeking behaviour
*self-injurious behaviour (i.e. head-banging,biting, skin and nail picking)
*behavioural problems including frequent and prolonged tantrums
So friends and family you can see that SMS parents and caregivers have their work cut out for them; many are suffering from ongoing sleep deprivation and dealing with behavioural problems on a regular basis.
We love our children and they make us smile. But it can be very challenging to be a parent/caregiver of a child or adult with SMS, while also dealing with all the emotions that go along with having a special needs child and facing the prejudices that exist in society.
So if you want to help; give us the support that you would like if you were in our position, learn about SMS, offer us a break once in a while, wipe our tears or listen to us vent if we are having a bad day, stay in contact and don’t shy away.
Less common features
*heart defects and murmurs
*urinary (kidney) system problems
*scoliosis (curvature of the spine)
Why SMS occurs
SMS affects approximately 1 in 25,000 individuals. Most people with SMS have a deletion of genetic material from chromosome 17 and a smaller percentage of people with SMS have a mutation in the RAI1 gene (if you want all the technical information refer to the links below).
Sam’s geneticists explained to me that SMS occurs at the time of conception when the egg is copying the mummy and daddy’s chromosomes but it copies chromosome 17 incorrectly. It is not usually inherited but there have been a few cases.
Useful Websites
Taylor Bug Kisses Foundation http://www.taylorbugkisses.com
PRISMS http://prisms.org/start.htm
Smith Magenis Foundation UK http://www.smith-magenis.co.uk/
SMS Research Foundation http://www.smsresearchfoundation.org/
Pas a Pas Alexia (France) http://www.pasapasavecalexia.fr/
Association Smith-Magenis (France) http://www.smithmagenis.com/
Smith Magenis (Denmark) http://www.smithmagenis.dk/
The Taylor Bug Kisses Foundation kindly sponsors our website fees. If you wish to make a donation to the foundation click below www.taylorbugkisses.com
International SMS Map
Salli and Nick Hunt started and maintain an international SMS map to help connect families around the world. Please visit the `International Map for SMS' group to add your details.
SMS Research Foundation - The US based Research Foundation -
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SMS Fundraising
Taylor's Website www.freewebs.com/taylorsms
Grace's Website http://www.graceriddell.com
Sydney's Website
www.strengthforsydney.org
Sienna's Website www.siennasteps.com
Nico's Website
www.nicosjourney.webs.com
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Welcome to Holland" By Emily Perl Kingsley, 1987
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands.
The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland." "Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay. The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place. So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met. It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy.
But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned." And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things about Holland.